In the realm of therapy, the conventional image is often that of someone seated across from you in an office—an image that has largely defined my own experiences. Exploring the role of a social worker in healthcare, I’ve found that while the approach may vary slightly, the essence remains quite similar. Irrespective of the setting, individuals deal with shared emotions like grief, loss, and adjustments. However, within the healthcare context, grief and loss take on a more pronounced presence.
Having worked in both oncology and dialysis, I’ve witnessed patients mourning the transformation of their bodies from what once was to what is today. They confront limitations on activities they once took for granted, coming to terms with newfound health challenges.
Contrary to traditional therapy, where one may strive for goals and envision a brighter future, the populations I engage with often face a different reality. While goals are still on the table, my focus predominantly centers on the present. Tomorrow is uncertain for everyone, but particularly for patients with limited options. This emphasis on the here and now is what draws me to this population. A more unconventional approach involves simply being present—sitting chairside, holding hands, and providing support. It’s a unique experience that I find fulfilling, allowing me to establish meaningful connections with both patients and their families.
For those navigating a recent diagnosis of a chronic condition, reaching out to a social worker can be immensely beneficial. If you find yourself or a family member in such a situation, consider asking key questions:
- What is your role, and how can you support me?
- How can I reach out to you after hours if needed?
- In what ways do you collaborate with my medical team?
Getting to know your social worker is crucial—they are there not only to assist but also to guide you.
Remember, it’s perfectly acceptable to seek help; you are never alone in your journey.
